Some of the statements and assumptions about this story are why innocent people end up in prison. People make stuff up or create a storyline that fits an imaginary narrative. There is the law, there are the facts and then there is the truth. You shouldn’t create a narrative that allows your consciousness to accept what’s not factually correct.
Did Miller and Bradley make immature decisions in this situation? Yes, they did. Is it something any of us would have done? I’m sure 50% of us would’ve taken Miles his gun, especially if you’re still near and/or you don’t want to be in possession of the firearm anyway. But, they didn’t violate the law. In the future, I’m sure they will make certain that no one rides in their car with a gun in the future. I’m sure they will leave situations where people are acting out stupidly AND not return.
I can’t imagine the stress and burden that each of those guys internalize knowing that, if they make a different decision, possibly no one dies or goes to jail. In the same vein, there is also the possibility of living with the thought that their teammate and friend being killed by gunfire when unable to defend himself because they chose not to return Miles’s weapon when he requested it. Everyone can get on their high horse all day and beat your chest as to what you’d do. But, this ain’t about you, your behavior or feelings. This is about the life and situations that society has constructed for children and young adults who are still maturing in their decision-making. If you sign up for the military or apply for a job with law enforcement, that’s one thing. But, waking up and living your life as one grows up and learns on life’s continuum is another, especially in our present gun culture.
Not to be forgotten, the most important fact in this situation is that a young lady senselessly lost her life and her child lost his mother. It teaches us that at any moment a situation, not of your doing, can change your life’s trajectory and that of others you know and don’t know. We all need remember that our actions and decisions have consequences: good and bad. We need to not allow our emotions or feelings or what we might do unduly or unfairly disperse judgment by subconsciously or purposefully assigning prejudicial blame or intent on those involved in this matter, especially without knowing ALL of the facts.